Physical marriage is a type and shadow of Spiritual Marriage with the Christ of God. Wedded with Christ Spirit our soul is made complete, to live, move and have our being in the River of Holy Spirit on earth as it is in heaven! Our spirit and soul and body in Christ can rest and be led by the Holy Spirit when Christ is in us!
When a male and female marry, everything that is not of Christ will come up to conscious awareness to be able to see what was hidden below the surface, below the mask of the person we present to the world. Everyone has a past which includes a childhood where all our needs were not met, where hurts, wounds and traumas that were too much for a child to bear were buried, compartmentalized, split off, or fragmented. All human souls are wounded from living in this world ruled by the god of this world and does not become complete with marriage to another human soul, but completed with Christ in you: the human soul wedded to Christ Spirit (a new heaven and a new earth where righteousness dwells).
Therefore within a marriage, there are two marriages: the first that brings up all the painful stuff where we reenact our parents marriage or reenact parental introjects, or reenact the buried stuff of our parents or ancestors, or we reenact the traumas or wounds of our childhood…
until we are able to enter the fire of our sorrow (Oswald Chambers), die to our old human nature with Christ, and rise with Christ into His Marriage: our soul made complete in Christ, Christ in you!
Our first marriage with all its problems, issues, heart-breaks, disappointments, disillusionments, discouragement, even shattered dreams, when allowed to die with Christ, can raise a new second marriage to the same person WITH Christ. The same Spirit that raised Christ Jesus from the dead, will resurrect your marriage to be seated WITH Christ in heavenly places if you TRUST God, SURRENDER the past, and RECEIVE the New Life of Christ, Christ in you!!!!!!!
In Christ all things can be made NEW! The impossible becomes possible! Human nature is transformed, transfigured and reformed into divine nature with Christ in you!!!!!!! Apart from Christ it is satanic, luciferian self-divinization, self-interest, self-righteousness, pride, hubris, arrogance proclaiming yourself God, building a man-made tower of babel trying to reach the heavenly realms, trying to reach enlightenment, trying to be God, when we were CREATED by the CREATOR to be complete WITH Christ: the two become one body and one Spirit!!!!!!! This is who God created you to be: complete WITH Christ in you!!!!!!!